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Category: Productivity and Self-Improvement

  • La Bestia Del Tiempo (The Beast of Time)

    I’m reading a fascinating book right now about “The Beast” (“La Bestia” or “El Tren de la Muerte” in Spanish), a freight train that travels thousands of miles from the Guatemalan Border to northern Mexico, where it then feeds into several other lines that ultimately land in the U.S. The interesting part about the train is not the freight that it carries or its path through the jungles of South America, but rather the thousands of immigrants who jump its cars and cling to them for dear life in an effort to cross illegally into the United States. Never being satisfied with just reading a great book, I also took in a great documentary on the same subject.


    Taking the train is, by most accounts, the quickest, most direct means by which illegal immigrants can enter the U.S. However, the locomotive’s desperate travelers pay a steep price for the privilege of riding the rails. The train has earned is various, ominous nicknames due to the many enormously dangerous challenges presented by its days-long journey north. The cars themselves present the most immediate threat, as countless immigrants are killed or maimed either by failed attempts to attach to the train while it is moving, or by falling off while in transit (“countless” in a literal sense, as many fall from the train in the middle of the jungle or desert, leaving no trace as the train moves on). In addition to the physical dangers posed by the train’s movements, the migrants also face the threat of attacks from drug cartels or roadside bandits, or arrest from police and other authorities. Their journeys are further complicated by the constant challenge of finding food, water, and rest along the way.


    It is an unbelievably perilous path, and regardless of where one falls on the political spectrum (for the record, I’m Christian/conservative/law-and-order), any reasonable reader cannot help but to empathize with the migrants in their plight, or admire their desperate courage. Seeing the lengths that others are willing to go to in order to enter this great nation of ours – even if illegally – should make us think twice the next time we’re tempted to lose out temper because the line at Starbucks is moving too slow.

    Aside from the glaring humanitarian aspects of the story, however, something else impacted me – the train itself. It is, in many respects, the central character in the book, compelling in its ability to both carry people to freedom or throw them to their deaths. And it struck me … the train is a lot like time, and we are a lot like its passengers. As I began to explore that idea, I discovered many corollaries that I find apply in any man’s life:

    • Like time, the train travels the same path, day-in/day out, year-in/year-out. It’s not affected by weather, emotions, political affairs, etc. It just keeps moving along its predictable path.
    • The passengers (migrants in the book, or everyday people in daily life) can either take advantage of the train and ride it to a better life, or they can play around and not take the train seriously, or they can ignore the train altogether. The train doesn’t care, it just keeps moving.
    • Just because the migrants are aware of the train doesn’t mean they approach it the correct way. Many of them just decide to hop on without any planning, forethought, or strategy. That is a bad move. Yes, they’re on the train, but it’s called La Bestia for a reason. It will move, shake, jerk, go faster than one thinks at time, and slower than expected at others. It can act as a friend to the migrants in conveying them to their goals, but it is not their friend. There is a difference. The train keeps on chugging away, completely oblivious to its occupants.
    • Those who take the train seriously, show it the respect it deserves, map out their journeys in detail, execute well, and stick with the train through all the inevitable winds and turns of the mountainous jungle path, will reach their goals. Think of the highly successful people you know, perhaps yourself.
    • Those who play games with the train, fail to show it the proper respect, neglect planning, drop off too early, fall asleep on the journey – they face very different outcomes, potentially getting tossed off into the dark wilderness, with no direction, and no hope of reaching their planned destination.
    • One other striking feature (perhaps the most salient) is the role of leadership, particularly in the documentary. The migrants tend to travel in groups, and the truth is, typically most of them are clueless. Even the ones who have tried before don’t necessarily show state-of-the-art thinking, and that’s part of the reason so many of the immigrant hopefuls end up failing in one way or another (death, dismemberment, arrest, etc.). Most of the migrants are scared, incompetent, lacking in confidence. They only know that, with everything in them, they want to make it to the Promised Land. The group being profiled in the documentary, however, is led by Jaime, a 30-year-old former gang member, who is seeking to return to the U.S. after being deported years earlier. Jaime has turned his life around, settled down, and found a woman whom he wants to marry (Lupita, who accompanies him on the trip). This alone would make for a compelling story, but what really grabs the observant viewer’s attention is the leadership displayed by Jaime. He really shows himself to be a remarkable young man. He organizes the group and keeps them in line and on-purpose; he encourages them when they face the inevitable challenges of cold, hunger, frustration and fear; he makes key alliances with other traveling groups at some points along the trip, then cuts those alliances when he feels that it no longer benefits his group’s objectives; he displays wisdom and foresight, but even when he gets it wrong (when, for instance, he inadvertently leaves the group stranded in a heavily policed area just outside of the U.S. border) he maintains a fearless front for the rest of the group; finally, on the banks of the Rio Grande, Jaime escorts his group over, one by one, coming back for each member at great risk to himself, until they are all safely on the other side.

    Jaime demonstrates the last great facet of time management – leadership. Others in our lives want (and deserve) success, protection, peace, self-fulfillment, but the truth is, very few of them will know or understand how to get there. It is up to strong, knowledgeable, wise, and selfless men to ensure not only that they reach their own goals, but that they act selflessly in bringing everyone in their circle along with them for the ride.

  • Massive Action

    Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise:

    Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,

    Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest.

    Take Massive Action. You’ve heard it before from a number of self-help and business coaching gurus. According to these experts, you need to assess whatever actions you are currently taking and multiply them by (depending on the particular guru) 2, 5, or even 10 times. Made 4 sales calls yesterday? Make 30 today. Followed up on 10 leads last week? Make that 100 this week. It sounds impractical, over-the-top, cheesy even. But here’s the thing … it’s true, it’s a necessity, and it works.

    However, if you’ve been on the self-improvement path for any longer than 4 minutes, then you’ve likely become aware of a certain phenomenon: It’s a lot more fun, interesting, and enjoyable to learn than to do. And for the record, this doesn’t apply, nor is it directed, to lazy people. Lazy people wouldn’t even be on a self-improvement path, and would not have the wherewithal, discipline, or focus to even undertake a program of learning such as the one I’m talking about.

    No, this is directed towards the aggressive guys out there, who already have it together to one degree or another. Because people of this type often suffer from a malady other than – and worse than – simple laziness. Their downfall isn’t an unwillingness to work hard, but rather the delusion that what they’re doing meets the requisite level of action to achieve success. Too often this simply is not the case.

    People have an almost inherent aversion to action. In most cases we would prefer to watch inspirational videos, study tutorials, receiving “coaching”, talk about our problems, “strategize”, and on and on. Very often the last item on our list (if we ever do get to it) is massive action. There are a few reasons for this:

    • Action requires courage: Taking massive action almost guarantees that we will be proceeding into unknown, uncomfortable zones, over and over again.
    • Action requires patience: Hard, sustained effort usually only pays off over time, not immediately. It does not bring instant gratification.
    • Action is often boring: Delaying instant gratification and focusing on high-value tasks is not flashy or exciting much of the time.
    • Action invites failure: A lot of failure. A WHOLE LOT of failure. Because aggressive action takes you into unknown lands (see point #1 above), there is 100% probability that you will regularly find yourself short on skills, experience, or knowledge at any given time. That is a splendid recipe for failure, and you will be taste-testing it often. However, it is also a surefire method of success, over time. As you continually press into scary places where your skills are tested at a maximum level, you gain opportunities to “level up” quickly and effectively. Over time, those combined skills work together to make you an elite performer in your field, and they bring with them massive success.

    Put the book down. Turn the video off. Get off this blog (but come back later please). If, in the coming 7 days, you do nothing but take massive action in your chosen field, suffering through the scrapes and bruises that come with it, you will likely learn more, accomplish more, and obtain more experience than in 3 months of books or videos. You obviously do not want to cut out the use of books, trainings, coaching, or any other valuable resources that helps you to develop. However, you do want to apply the 80/20 rule when determining the proper balance between action and anything else. Spend most of your time doing – and doing a lot – and watch your success grow.

  • Prayer. Ugh, Prayer.

    Rather than label this post with a ephemistic title such as “Unlocking the Power of Prayer” or “Win Your Battles on Your Knees!”, I figured I’d make it more relatable by reenacting the response that most of us guys have when it’s time to, you know, talk to God. Prayer is difficult. It’s boring. It consumes (or should consume) significant portions of our already-busy lives.

    And yet, it must be done. Like mowing the grass but with much better results. Like working out but often with a much quicker payoff. We all get that – internally, at least. And yet, despite its enormous power and the great privilege that it offers us, we still struggle to make it happen day-in and day-out.

    I have a technique I use to win this war. It pulls from the Pomodoro Technique (here for those of you who remain unschooled). 15 minutes in the early evening. Me and God (God and I?). One on one. That’s the bite-sized commitment that not only makes this discipline doable, but can also yield significant time (and results) over the course of a month. Similar to nearly every other personal discipline, many of the days will be “check-box” days. Sometimes little gets said in those 15 minutes. Sometimes much. But it is conversation. It’s a discipline. And it’s relationship building of the finest sort.

    I won’t be confused with John Calvin any time soon, but slow, steady, and in reliable pieces is a great way to approach this and win.

  • Redeeming the Time

    The value of time has declined considerably in the eyes of many. Sure, you’d be hard-pressed to find someone who would actually utter the words “I don’t care about my time” or “I love wasting time”. In truth, however, the vast majority of people throw countless hours away on meaningless or insignificant activities. The average person thinks nothing of plopping down to binge on Netflix (or the latest streaming service) for hours at a time, consuming mindless garbage that not only fails to uplift the mind, but actively works to downgrade it.

    I received a sobering lesson at the end of last 2022. I, like most, sit down every year to assess the progress made throughout the year, and map out my goals and plans for the coming year. In my line of work, it is important for me to track my time pretty consistently and accurately throughout the workday. Over the years, however, I’ve become more and more fascinated by the whole prospect of tracking my time, and began expanding the handy work timer software to cover decidedly non-work related activities. It was an intentional, long-range personal study on how I used my time. By the time 2022 rolled around, I found that I was tracking nearly every minute of my life, from my hours at work, to my workouts, to the time that I laid down for brief naps. It’s extremely difficult to capture every second of an entire year, but I feel fairly confident that I was able to track abou 95% of my time for 2022. I should also note that I’m pretty hardcore in my work habits, frequently working 80 hours or more per week, and managing my time pretty tightly even when not working.

    As you might imagine, there was a lot of interesting information that was revealed when I did my year-end tally. To me, however, the most interesting piece of information was not how much time I spent in the gym, or at work, or in prayer, but rather, the amount of completely wasted time. And when I said “wasted”, I do not mean time spent lounging with the family watching a movie (valuable), or hanging out with friends (potentially valuable), or even doing mundane chores (not necessarily valuable but still tracked separately). No, when I say “wasted”, I mean activities that were categorized under either “breaks” or “miscellaneous”, meaning I was going absolutely nothing of value during those periods.

    The part that was so shocking about that information was the sheer scope of wasted time – over 650 hours of completely unused or underutilized time in 2022. It’s a staggering figure. Think about all the things you could do with 650 hours – master a new language or instrument, start a new business, likely squeeze in 20 books more, spend tons of quality time with family, become Volunteer of the Year, etc. etc. For me, it was time down the drain.

    But here’s another interesting part – I’m not a lazy guy. As I mentioned, I work long hours consistently, and generally do not toy around with my time. Which is why is makes sense that, on a weekly basis, my wasted time only amounted to roughly 12.5 hours. Not great, but not horrible either considering the amount of time I spend on meaningful activities each week. However, those 12.5 hours compounded week after week, month after month, eventually lead to nearly 700 hours thrown away by year’s end.

    Time is one of the most valuable resources and powerful tools that we as men possess – and it’s non-renewable. In order to make the most of our lives, to serve Christ to the greatest of our abilities, to be the men that our families expect and need us to be, we truly must be intentional about redeeming all the seconds, minutes, and hours that we find. They very quickly turn into weeks, months, years, and legacies.